A Little Pick Me Up for Little Ari

Hey Little Ari!   I know this week has been rough for you, but I wanted to write you something that will put a smile on your face. I hope these words will make you realize that you are loved and valued. Little Ari, you are allowed to cry about losing something that you wanted.Continue reading “A Little Pick Me Up for Little Ari”

Stupid Girl

Why did I allow myself to think that I could bring back something that was never meant to be? I wish I didn’t care as much as I do about this. It has never been when I felt so stupid as I do right now. I am so quick to think that everything will beContinue reading “Stupid Girl”

Baby Girl

Hi Baby Girl, This is your mama. I know that God has not sent you to me yet, but I want to talk to you because I can feel you near me. I am trying my hardest to be the best woman I can be to be ready for you. I dream about you often.Continue reading “Baby Girl”

Gaining Patience

Hi. My name is Ari, and I have no patience (Hi Ari). Seriously, I never had any patience. My Mama said that as a child, I always wanted to rush things along to check it off to say that I did it. So now, as a 34-year-old woman trying to unlearn this horrible habit isContinue reading “Gaining Patience”

2022 Rules

Listen up 2022! You just got here, so I need you to play nice, okay? I have some pointers, so you know how to handle yourself around me. 1. Do not bring up past issues. 2. Stay consistent. 3. Stay in the moment. 4. If you cannot get it done today, chill. We still haveContinue reading “2022 Rules”

Hello Goodbye 2021

Hi 2021, I want to say that you really made me work this year mentally. I honestly cannot believe that I am still standing. I was hard on myself, and I almost felt that it wasn’t a purpose for me. But thankfully, I had my angels on Earth and in Heaven to comfort me. 2021Continue reading “Hello Goodbye 2021”

A December Love #15

Hun, From day one, we helped each other tear down the walls that made love seem so far away. We took hit after hit, but it did not stop us fighting for our love. There were days where we ran into walls we did not know we still had. But our love broke every brickContinue reading “A December Love #15”

A December Love #10

Dear Husband, I know that you are a strong man, but understand that you can lean on me when you are weak. I was created to be your helpmate. I was created to stand by you in good days and the bad days. I want you to know that you can trust me; whatever itContinue reading “A December Love #10”

A December Love #7

Hun, So I am about to be a little sappy, but I think you will like it. You blow my mind—the man of my dreams. My soul yearns for your touch. I want you every second of every day. You make my heart smile with just a look from you. I love all of you.Continue reading “A December Love #7”

What Not to Say

There are days that I cannot stop myself from speaking badly about myself. I will dump some of the rudest things that I say to myself to erase them from my mind. Please note that I do not want anyone using these horrible statements. • Your goals are not obtainable • You are lazy •Continue reading “What Not to Say”